Do you hate having your picture taken because

a) You’re privacy-conscious

b) You have something to realize about yourself that will change your entire life, how other people see you, how you see yourself and how you feel

deliberate pause to allow the realization to set in

OR

c) both

  • TheYear2525@lemmy.world
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    2 years ago

    a.

    If I’m with older friends, I don’t mind photos.

    My younger friends will put every pic they take on Facebook, geotag it, and tag my face with my full name so Meta can add my face, location history, and social graph to my shadow profile.

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      2 years ago

      This is my actual worst nightmare hands down. just the thought that if someone would try to dox you in that scenario, your totally done for.

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      Most of my friends know how serious I am with that and wouldn’t dare, because they know damn well I would let hell rain down on them

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      I don’t like being unknowingly associated with something or anything that could get me into trouble in the future. I have no idea what will happen during my lifetime and it doesn’t even have to be from the government of my home country.

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    2 years ago

    It’s b) for me since, I’m awfully not photogenic and hate looking at myself in photos. Probably a lot of you can relate as well.

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    I’m starting a new job and was told that they’ll want a picture of me and a short intro to send company wide. I will throw a fit about that.

    The company I’m leaving also wants a short video from me to wish someone well on their retirement. Not going to be happening.

    • miss_brainfart@lemmy.mlOP
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      Yeah no, I wouldn’t want to do that either. What’s even the point?

      That reminds me, I recently applied at a place that explicitely states full GDPR compliance in everything they do, but at the same time is a Google Partner

      I found that to be quite amusing

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          The protagonist of Celeste is trans, which was a nice conclusion to the story after the developer of the game realized she was trans.

          Full disclosure, I never played much of the game, but this is what I know about it.

          So it’s quite an iconic game in the trans community, and an absolute meme at this point, too

          I like to joke that I can’t be trans because I failed to complete the very first level

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            ah, I see. I was aware that Madeline was trans, but I didn’t know it was such a widespread meme. one quick search and actually, that explains a lot. like the mirror temple and such

            Sorry for dumping my thought process for the last five minutes lol

            I like to joke that I can’t be trans because I failed to complete the very first level

            what does still struggling halfway on farewell make me ಠ_ಠ

    • miss_brainfart@lemmy.mlOP
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      No can do, candid camera is best camera

      Maybe I wouldn’t hate it if I actually liked how I looked. But I don’t, that face in the mirror is just some guy I don’t feel overly connected to

  • tfw_no_toiletpaper@feddit.de
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    Who “gets their picture taken”? Like at the end of a school year? Or do you mean family photos, or just social media photos in general?

    Also I don’t understand b). Like the sentence at all.

    I hate my photos being online because my name is pretty unique and if some local newspaper has the pic in it, you WILL find my face within seconds of a Google image search.

    • miss_brainfart@lemmy.mlOP
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      Just photos in general, yeah.
      Answer b) is just an overly subtle play on how trans people who may not have realized they’re trans yet oftentimes seem to hate photos.