

- You’re not over her, at least not 100% which is normal. Just because you don’t want her back doesn’t mean the situation you discribed wouldn’t bother you. You don’t have to act tough for us, where all literally anonymous strangers that will never meet lol
- Work on your health, you’ll feel better. Drink some water, stop drinking alcohol for a few month, start exercising, get some sleep. Do it for yourself, you owe it to future you.
- Just avoid her for now, get some new hobbies. The whole music thing will still be there when you decide to get back to it down the line.
- If you think it’s necessary to move to a new city for your mental health or will help in some way. Yeah, maybe. If you like your job and like where you live then stay.
Just grab her by the back of the head and whisper. “we’re in the stage where you stfu.” Proceed to kiss her super fucking hard, then walk away. This should clear everything up for her.