Orientation: Aromantic Asexual (AroAce)

Identity + Gender Modality: Agender + Isogender (Please note I don’t identify as cis or Trans)

Pronouns: Use any, Idc, *mostly doesn’t really matter to me (just not it/its).

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Cake day: July 26th, 2023

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  • PANEL 2: two other players.
    PLAYER 2: Can you just come out already? We’re supportive.
    PLAYER 3: Waiting for you to transition is taking forever.

    Seriously this isn’t how people who are supportive behave, when and also whether or not someone chooses to transition is up to them and should not be coerced by others. Also like, the whole point of DnD and TTRPGs as a whole is to be someone you aren’t, making characters which are like you is called meta-roleplaying or metagaming and, at least in my opinion it diminishes the experience of the game. Playing characters that are wildly different than you is kind of the point.

    OP you didn’t do anything wrong, this is a critique of the characters in the comic, not you.







  • Already said it in [email protected] but I’ll say it again so others can see it here.

    It seems drag was banned from the site for sharing people’s DMs, though I’m sure that’s not the whole story, drag has a history of being banned for way more than just the thing on the label. Looking at the comments on drag’s home instance where it hasn’t been removed, it seems drag was sharing those DMs in attempt to libel Ada for not taking the action drag wanted. That’s on top of the fact that she did not give drag permission to share them. It’s an asshole move for sure, and I have to say if I were in Ada’s shoes I’d do the same.






  • I think you’re either overselling their defensive capabilities (like mods there do) or the solutions you used are just leaky and awful. I’ve found Tor to work very well, less complicated than the solutions you presented since it’s basically an all in one. I had an account on there for almost a year only through Tor so it works well, but I lost the password and since I used a throwaway email account is gone for good, but still not shadowbanned.

    I have 4 other accounts (I’m not going to say which ones they are, makes the job of admins harder) still been going for over two months.



  • Before anyone tries to argue that they can’t be a bigot because they’re NonBinary, just keep in mind that transmedicalists are openly and directly transphobic despite being transgender themselves. Just because this person is NonBinary that doesn’t make them not a hate-filled bigot, they still indeed are one, and in a way it’s actually worse because they’ll just say people are being transphobic or enbyphobic towards them when people try to call them out, which ends up being harmful because they’re calling things that aren’t transphobic transphobic. That reflects negatively on trans people and takes away from the ability to call out actual transphobia.






  • Good, I’m glad you found a place you like, please go there and leave us, we don’t want you to force your views onto others who aren’t willing to discuss it, hexbear users do that which is why they’ve been defederated time and time again (and probably will continue to be in the future).

    Also FYI you shouldn’t base “trans inclusivity” on whether or not people are willing to argue with you, trans inclusivity is based on supporting trans people and their rights to be respected and exist as human beings, to have equal rights as the rest of us, not for them to be able to step on others and force ideas onto others when they’re not willing to discuss them. For the record not wanting to discuss politics isn’t transphobic.