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  • MoonlightFox@lemmy.worldtoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldSnakes
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    43 minutes ago

    Is that paying a lot of attention? I can gage someones speed in less than half a second, then I just slightly lower mine. I don’t even have to look directly at a person. Saying that it is a lot of attention seems kinda strange to me.

    I can’t see many situations in which talking to a strange woman alone at night in the dark would make things better than keeping a good distance, minding my own business and letting them be.

    How this is percieved as following I don’t get. Care to elaborate? Are you thinking that increasing or maintaining the speed allows for a pass, then I won’t be behind and not “following” anymore? I have thought that was uncomfortable as well, some stranger passing you at night.

    I would at least argue that talking to a strange woman alone at night is more unfortunate and uncomfortable. And also paying a lot more attention to someone than simply slowing your speed slightly. I would assume most women simply want to walk at a decent pace home without being bothered or approached by men they don’t know.

    I should mention that we might be imagining different situations here. I am talking about situations in which there is already a decent distance either in front or behind, maybe 8-10m mimimum.

    This might also be a cultural difference. In Norway we don’t talk to strangers most of the time, doing so already breaks social cues. So doing that at night is even more unfortunate


  • MoonlightFox@lemmy.worldtoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldSnakes
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    If its late at night and a woman is walking in front of you, lower your speed. Let them get some extra distance. Then its not so awkward for you going the same way either.

    If you are in front, increase your speed slightly. Then they can decide if they want the additional distance.

    This is an easy courtesy to extend women walking alone at night.

    Yes, it’s a bit annoying to have to do stuff like that, but we live in a society, so I guess we have to adapt a bit, to make it more comfortable for everyone.






  • I think ignorance should excuse people in most cases. Being uneducated about something does not mean they have bad intentions or intend to hurt someone.

    Everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt.

    Of course there are cases where ignorance is unlikely, but in most cases we should accept that ignorance is a part of human nature and society.

    People need education, time and to be taught stuff. I grew up without a lot of parental supervision and guidance. This left me ignorant and lacking a lot of skills.

    I had to learn a lot as an adult and in most cases by myself. Society has a vast variety of human experiences and upbringing. Schools are lacking and not covering enough about politics, economy, history and society.

    I believe we should assume ignorance and good intentions, even from people we assume are far gone into the wrong side of politics.

    One of my core beliefs is that people can change, my life experience supports this.

    I had a friend who voted for a conservative party in my country, that has now changed completly to the opposite side. I like to think I was a part of helping that transition, by being open, honest and non-judgemental. Also admitting your own mistakes or when you change your own opinion fosters a climate in which change is not damaging the reputational standing of a friend.

    That being said, a person buying the cybertruck now, is not someone I would give the benefit of the doubt.


  • MoonlightFox@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldExcellent idea
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    11 hours ago

    I feel like this entire “thank you” story related to chatgpt is there just to sell the AI hype.

    Obviously “thank you” and similar should yield a preprogrammed response not wasting resources.

    But by letting it waste resources Sam Altman and others can support the narrative that this might in the future save us, because the current path of LLMs could lead to AGI. This in turn leads to more investments


  • Given the choice between living in a authoritarian oligarchy without freedom vs a imperfect european liberal democracy, is not a tough choice for most.

    Without knowing a lot about the older historical context here, I would imagine that the people of Russia and Ukraine have been fairly close throughout modern history. They are neighbouring countries with a language that is very similar, and was both a part of the USSR.

    To me this attack on Ukraine seems like betraying family and/or friends. Ukraine did nothing besides existing peacefully. Russia decided to take land and citizens from Ukraine by annexing Crimea violently. They have continued killing and destroying Ukraine for years to seize land as their own. I have a tough time imagining Ukrainians in Crimea supporting the killing of their fellow countrymen by their violent neighbour for no good reason.

    Since Crimea now is annexed by Russia we can’t trust any polls from there either.

    I guess Russia should just give it back to Ukraine, and then they can do a legitimate vote. Russia obviously won’t do that, because they know how that will end.

    What is the saying? If you love something, then set it free. If it was meant to be, it will come back to you. Russia should use that tactic with all regions of Ukraine that it is currently occupying. I am suuuure it will work out for Russia 😂




  • As a happy and satisfied Linux gamer I disagree.

    Linux is the best OS overall, at least for me, but not the best for gaming for most people. Not yet.

    Emulators Xenia (xbox 360 emulator) was not mentioned, because it is Windows only. There is no Xbox 360 emulator for Linux.

    Game compatibility 80% are platinum or gold on ProtonDB https://www.protondb.com/

    This is impressive, but you can’t claim that a system that can’t play up to 20% of game titles is better. Not to mention that some of the other titles might need some tinkering as well.

    Conclusion Linux gaming is now a great and viable option for most people. But it still isn’t better than Windows if you don’t care about bloatware, security or privacy, and just use your machine exclusively for gaming.

    Bonus: Linux is free, so you could maybe also get slightly better hardware by selecting it over Windows.




  • I am not so sure. Trump couldn’t even hold his moronic tariffs for more than a few days, before having to cave.

    USA does not produce much besides services. China have a big surplus of production.

    China also owns a huge amount of US debt. They can start dumping it which will increase the interest rate on the huge US debt. This would quickly put the US in a difficult position. Any solution besides just paying down the debt would weaken trust in the US, so they either have to take it or make everyone in the world lose faith in the current financial system with the US as it’s guardian.


  • I suggest you tell her that this is a problem, and that this is affecting your friendship. That if she does not try to educate herself, that you will have to reconsider the friendship.

    Tell her that trans people have something called gender dysphoria. Reference Wikipedia and DSM. Prove that this is a real thing. Just like her autism. The best would probably be to just send her a couple of links with a short, but honest take on how this is a problem for you. Let her read it herself om her own time.

    The last thing you should do is let the friendship end without talking to her. Its important to confront people, and give them a chance to change their mind. People deserve that.




  • Free as in freedom, not only free as in beer. That is how FOSS works. Also one of the things I find appealing about it.

    By focusing on FOSS being this super serious thing, we kinda lose what is great about it. Everyone is welcome and free to use it as they see fit. That is by design (see licenses). A lot of FOSS is passion projects by people on their spare time, they do it because it is fun / fulfilling. We need all hands on deck, and FOSS should also be playful, experimental, and novel. FOSS is this super idealistic gift to humanity, from humanity. Every piece of FOSS software contributes to the collective human database of ideas and software.

    The “us reasonable users” is a really unfortunate way of sharing your opinion on this matter. Is it unreasonable to be a femboy and use FOSS/Linux? By being elitist like this, I kinda get the same reaction you claim to get from this user. I don’t want to be clumped in with the users that feel they are superior to everyone else and acting like it, and gatekeeping the FOSS community and its representation.