
I highly recommend the This American Life episode on the subject (ep 792 - When To Leave). The episode takes place before the OB-GYN actually decides to leave Sandpoint, and brings some thoughts to the idea of why many families - including myself and some of my family - can no longer call these states like Idaho home. The return of theological hatred-is-the-point laws and governance in places like Idaho is just outright terrifying. They’re going to become (and in some ways already are) incompatible with modern, fair, and just human existence.
See, that’s the batshit insane thing about this whole situation: these conservatives are so brainwashed that they typically don’t care why people don’t want to be around them. They often view it as a good thing that they’re in fly-over states/counties. So long as reasonable people with brains (and all women, and all lgbtq+ people, and all pregnant people, and all non-christians, etc etc) are excluded or subjugated, they feel like they’ve “won.”