All of the native plant literature show that there are a few species that can support many insect species. These few species can greatly increase the number. For most butterflies and moths only a single genus can support their caterpillars but these caterpillars bring many others who eat them. Only a few species can bring lots of diversity if you choose wisely. But ferns aren’t generally big diversity drivers

The fair is overwhelming so that must be nice to be at. What a nice way to make the fair accessable

How many do you think are actually vaccinated? Also what a good time to host this event with a new covid variant surging.

Get the pictures before they eat with anything. Can’t stay that fit after a pronto pup

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Yeah I can see it’s more of a real life event generator. It seems fun but wanted to see if real people like it

It doesn’t look like a traditional board game. So I’m not sure where exactly to ask

That is so true. Its so nice to access the lakefronts

This is great. Still dumb that HOA can outlaw it. I have been replacing our pure turf grass with clover and will slowly replace that with some native flowers. What a great change

In case anyone is interested Dipsea is recommended for exotic stories which many people enjoy more than visual media. Erika Lust is recommended for ethically created visual porn. Both have a large variety of content depending on what you like. Also free trials

I would listen to Super Kink Negative unless they were a Christian rock band

Just got to give yourself the Chill Touch

Its really a privilege to be picky about where to work. Many people don’t have that luxury but its worthwhile for everyone for those who can to continue to do so. It forces companies to step up their game to retain and attract high value employees. I did the same thing when searching for jobs with a large emphasis to avoid health insurance which has tons of jobs but are low pay, bad benefits and pretty evil

“For the longest time, it was: The male is the provider,” he said. “I was that guy. But now I’m not ashamed to say this is who I am in my life. That’s what Covid did. We had a lot of downtime to reflect and think about what’s important.”

The real silver lining of Covid is that lots of us realized how much more we can get out of life if we didn’t focus on being busy and commuting to work. I know that for myself I can finally focus on the life I really want to live since I work from home and see the value in simple pleasure at home. I never thought it about it changing traditional gender roles but it makes sense that anyone at home can do cleaning and cooking for the entire household.

This is a typical internet story where a moderate space about reducing porn consumption and then it gets taken over by extremists. NoFap is typical sex negative talk packages for men and young boys for the internet age. It focus on something simple like reducing porn use until it becomes a full sex negative no masturbation’s and no sex philosophy.

The shame around masturbation is immense even if you don’t get it from church. This is an attack male sexuality and reduces it into a simple phallic centric ejaculation focused instead of a whole body pleasure focused. This also ties really well into a female centric sex negative attack on porn in general which doubles up on the shame on men. The two together help support and create this false “cheating” definition and jealousy of toxic monogamist relationships. The idea that since we are monogamist neither of us has any other attraction is an insane and is impossible for both men and women. This ties into the PIV procreation focused sex that is the only “correct” sex which leads the both people unsatisfied with women’s pleasure completely ignored and men’s pleasure reduced to a single second and the “thrill of conquest”. These dovetail create to shame men for taking care of their own needs with porn and masturbation to focus on guilting and coercing their spouse into giving them low pleasure sex.

Moreover, this is super kink negative with the idea that kinky sex and porn being an escalation and not an innate part of humans sexualities. While men may not be kinkier than women they for sure get their kinks earlier. These kinks are almost explored in a visual medium since most require one or more willing partner and technical skills. These kinks should be explored this way as it starts until all partners find out what they want, learn the technical and emotional skill without causing lasting emotional or physical damage to both partners.

While there are some problems in mainstream porn since its used a replacement for real sex education and is built for some misogynistic viewers. However, there is more ethically created porn out there. Ironically NoFap usually attack the most ethical created porn in OnlyFans which gives the power directly to the female creator instead of the generally male lead mainstream porn industry. Porn is always going to exist and if people actually cared about human trafficking and ethical treatment of women they would support those who create it well.

Exactly. Don’t feed the trolls

Even better. Don’t click on Twitter and don’t engage with trolls in any format.

Always remember to never feed the trolls. It’s a very basic Internet rule that we should have continued to follow. Block and move on

It’s the old sad boomer joke that the mothers least favorite child is their husband

A lot of women are deciding that most men aren’t offering them anything they want or need.

I think this is the case for some women and isn’t just a perception. There are surveys that are showing that single women are the happiest and most satisfied with their life while married women are the least. The old threat that you will die single and alone isn’t working anymore. The helpless men (the ones who can’t cook, can’t clean, can’t support emotionally) used to skate by since women needed men. They don’t anymore and they are scared.

It’s sad because the expectations to be a “good” partner are so low for most men and most still don’t meet it. Most women I know want someone with a job, whose clean and nice to them but can’t find someone who fits all three.

As a demographic men need to step it up and as a society we failed them. It’s so sad the number of men who can’t cook a single meal or clean anything. These are important life skills that their mothers and fathers didn’t prepare them for because of outdated gender roles. Mother’s prepared their daughters for these changes but didn’t their sons. That is the issue