Is that how I ended up with crippling depression and anxiety?

Inconceivable!

Used to work in EMS, now just a lowly vollie, can’t agree with you more. I’d rather die before going to a nursing home, even the good ones. Those of us in EMS see the things no one else sees, we see what the state doesn’t see when they do their inspections, we see what is hidden from the families. But when we speak up, does anyone ever listen to us? Nope. I don’t know how any “civilised” society can be ok with treating their elderly the way we treat ours. Places where if you are standing in one place you have to keep shifting from foot to foot because if you actually stand still your boots will stick to the floor, residents in beds with sheets that look like they haven’t been changed in weeks, people crying for help all through the hallways, and just the general neglect and ignorance by staff, and when you do get staff who aren’t burned out and still care they are so overwhelmed by the patient ratios there’s still only so much they can do.

These parents don’t believe that children have rights, so what they are doing isn’t abuse in their mind. My mother once told me in a fit of rage that as long as I lived in her home I wasn’t a human being and had no rights as one beyond what she decided I could have. They believe they should have absolute control over their children, because of course you should have absolute control over your property. I respect my cats boundaries more than these people do their childrens.

In a slightly related topic, check out homeschools invisible children if you want to be horrified. It’s a project by the Coalition for Responsible Home Education and is only a small fraction of what happens at home. This needs to be spoken about more:

www.hsinvisiblechildren.org

I think this infuriates me so much. It’s not just that so many conservatives have blatantly spit on our laws and democracy. Our liberal politicians have stood by and watched them do it. Yes, they may have started a committee to investigate, and they may say it’s wrong, but these people literally tried to storm the Capitol and have continued to tear at the fabric of our nation and instead of taking a hard stance and being true patriots the liberals just sit there and go “oh no sweetie, we don’t do that, it’s not nice.” Fucking bring the hammers down, stand up and get rid of this shit!!! You are the ones with the power. See that these laws are upheld! Stop shaking your heads and wringing your hands when nothing is done, because if it ends up coming down to the people having to enforce laws this country is over.

What? Off with your head!

Now do it for MySpace and Twitter!

I commented that I had switched to Firefox browser from a chromium browser and that I was still using it but really didn’t like it and listed a few reasons why and got more down votes on that single comment than I’d ever gotten total on reddit. The condescending responses were something else. I almost deleted my account, like sorry, I clearly don’t subscribe to the lemmy hive mind, so I don’t belong here. I also don’t have strong feelings about Linux, guess I should get fucked.

I don’t know why but I read that as Republistilskin.

I’ve never seen a picture of DeSantis that doesn’t instantly make me think of a sulking, petulant toddler angry that he dropped his lollipop in the dirt and mommy won’t get him a new one

As a teenager I was at work and I was helping a customer. I had my very long hair down and a hoodie on, but it had been a cool spring morning and was starting to get pretty warm out. Finished my interaction, walked away, tied my hair up into a high ponytail and took off my hoodie. Ended up going back to talk to the customer later and he looked at me real carefully and said “do you have a sister?”

Yes and spoilers (since I don’t know how to cover a comment)

The post credit scene of Alyx shows you as Gordan at the end of HL2E2. Only Gman has now taken Alyx and you as Gordon are being handed Gordon’s crowbar and are told “come on Gordon, we have work to do”

They sort of announced HL3 in the post credit scene on HLAlyx, but of course we’ve been promised HL3 before so even if we get it it’ll be another 10 years probably. Alyx was so incredibly good though.

Same. I had a decent job in my late teens early twenties, decent as in it paid really well and I liked the hours even though they were weird and long. I left because it wasn’t the type of job that got me “adult points” and I was sick of being looked down on for what I did (it wasn’t anything NSFW or anything, just more of a teen job type that I excelled at and got myself promoted up the ladder). I told one of my co-workers “I like this place, and it’s paying me good money, but I don’t want to be 30 and still working here.”

Well fuck me, because it turns out that I’m in my 30s now and that’s still the most money I’ve ever fucking made. My boss from that job actually just texted me the other day and offered me my job back even though it’s been over 8 years and if I hadn’t moved 1,000 miles away I might have considered it because he would have almost doubled what he had been paying me before.

I’m back doing the college thing trying to better myself and get into the tech sector, and fuck I hope it works out because if not I might just decide to finally opt out of this world. I’ve fucking had enough of trying and trying and busting my ass just to keep having the rules change and the goal posts move.

I think it’s a more modern version of what we in EMS call “treat the patient, not the monitor.” AKA, if your patient looks like they’re in distress, is having trouble breathing, etc, but you throw them on the monitor to get vitals and it’s reading that everything is within normal levels, don’t just sit back and be like well clearly you are fine, stop saying you cant breathe because my little lifepack says otherwise. Either the monitor is wrong or they’re doing some hard-core compensation to keep themselves within normal ranges, so let’s treat them and not what the computer says.

“Tell me about yourself?”

“Name one fun fact about you?”

“What’s something you like to do?”

Look, I’m in my 30s and I don’t fucking know who I am, I’m the most boring person you’ll ever meet, I’ve never had a true friend in my life and I like to hike and play video games but I never have the energy to hike anywhere cool anymore and saying I like to play video games either makes me look like a loser nerd or makes people want to endlessly talk about video games with me and I just want to be left alone in the corner to be the loser nerd that I am.

My dad worked at a bank at the time. I don’t know much about his job, it’s over my head, something about daily transfers and loans of large amounts of money between banks, dealing with the federal reserve, and making sure bank reserves are stable and where they need to be (he’s the person I call whenever I hear of a coming recession or a bank collapse that hits the news, because he gives me the no bullshit or hysteria facts of whether or not I should be concerned and start buckling down or not). I was just a kid for Y2K, but I do remember it’s the only time in my life my dad ever worked overtime, he went from being an off work at 5 on the dot to not getting home until after our bedtime every day for months before New Years. I honestly have no idea what he was doing, but he was busy making sure something was good to go.

If my clock app didn’t have the option to set alarms for days of the week I’d be fooked. I can tell it to ring every Monday-Thursday (the days I have class) and then not have to worry about turning it on and off every day or for the weekend. If I need turn it off for a day it will auto turn on the next day. Otherwise I’d have slept through so many days of work and school by forgetting to turn on my damned alarm I swear.

I’m also from PA and moved to a southern state. It’s fun when it’s 60 degrees out and everyone is walking around in winter jackets and scarves and I’m in a t-shirt literally dripping sweat. My first winter it was 55 out and someone said “I can’t wait for spring to come, I’m so sick of the cold.” I just looked at them and said “uh… where I come from, this is spring.”

What is the difference between a magnet link and a torrent file?

Wow, that was super informative. Thank you!

All of you commenting have been so much nicer than everyone on the tech pages. I don’t even go there because everyone is all “Linux is God, if you don’t understand everything about it why are you even on lemmy lolololol” and I just want some building blocks to start my knowledge :)