As a long distance runner: briefs on training days. Otherwise boxers.

As for the ‘No racism’ part, skip the Netherlands. One of the current governing parties is openly racist and can even be considered fascist. Also, we have a huge housing crisis, so finding a place to live may be challenging.

“Mof”. That is the Dutch equivalent for “Kraut” as in the slur for “German”. My grandparents lived through the second world war and went through some traumatic experiences.

What is your definition of stability? I have used Arch for about ten years without any major breakage, but sometimes you do have to do some manual tinkering if a package stops working. So it’s stable enough for me, but maybe not for others. Since it is a rolling release, packages are generally being updated quite rapidly.

I think that any modern rolling release distro would fit the bill though.