For myself, at 19 I stubbornly believed that my judgement was the best judgement. I felt the same way at 16, too. I had to get to about 25 or 26 to realize that I was mostly a hormonal idiot. Every 10 years I look back and go “huh, that was naive”.

I just hope all of this works out for the OP. As a father of a daughter, it feels scary, but my fear doesn’t help anyone.

To me it just says “I don’t like it” without having to engage in the conversation. This isn’t a conversation where anything anybody says is going to change anything anyways.

How and when did you meet this guy?

Watch out it’s the Block Redneckqois

Might explain why there were so many signs all over.

When your toddler throws a tantrum the best thing to do is to give them a loving pat and ignore them. You can always come back when they’ve moved through their big feelings and are ready to be a part of the family again.