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Cake day: June 15th, 2023

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  • I don’t spend any time, awake, in my bedroom. TV is in the living room, where I spend my idle time. I can hear through the walls, though, that my neighbors spend a lot of time just hanging out in their bedroom, and that there’s a TV there. So, I suspect, if you’re in a home with multiple people, that having a TV or entertainment in each bedroom is more common. Essentially treating the bedroom as a private apartment within the larger space.






  • Average spending is not a good metric for addictive behaviors - spending/consumption tends to be extremely concentrated in a small fraction. My go-to example for this is alcohol where, in the US, 10 drinks/week is the population average, but also enough to get you into the “top 10%” or “heavy drinker” bin, where the average consumption of that bin is 74 drinks/week. In both alcohol and gacha, a huge fraction of the population don’t pay anything.

    I mean, even if the article’s $30/month average spend is entirely within their 20% “problem” spenders, it would only be $150, but it’s a little easier (for me) to see where $150/month gacha habit could be a problem for young people already on the financial edge. Not the fundamental problem that skyrocketing rent and stagnant wages are, but more in the last-straw sense.





  • Gotta admit, I only went looking for the dragon because everyone in game said it’d be super helpful, and there’s a quest called “Gather your allies.” My talker had like 20 charisma and expertise in all the charisma skills…I resolved a lot of conflicts without violence. Disappointed to be forced into combat with the dragon by our guardian angel.

    Kind of disappointed with all the interactions with our ‘guardian angel’ once their true nature was revealed. Maybe I made wrong choices, but their guidance just seemed…off. Not wrong. Not evil. Just somehow not quite right. Maybe somehow inconsistent with their revealed nature, and pushing towards ex machina, like a number of things I don’t see how I’d have discovered if they hadn’t outright told me. The dragon interaction is part of that not-quite-rightness.

    I definitely found the ending to be the least satisfying part of the game. I went straight from the dragon to the final battle, and I think that sequence intensified the less-than-satisfying feeling.


    1. They’re not going to show you completely routine stops that involve nothing more than exchange of paperwork
    2. They’re not going to show you minimally confrontational stops where people politely comply
    3. Often, such commands are preceded by a series of events that’s elevated everyone’s stress level and reduced rational thinking
    4. Fear of abuse/arrest
    5. Drugs
    6. Mental health
    7. A bunch of stuff that other helpful lemmings will point out.



  • I was alive for the Columbia explosion, 9/11, the Challenger explosion, and Reagan’s attempted assassination. I saw them all as highlight reels on TV hours after the facts. I saw OJ’s glove escapade on the evening news. I expect there to be a Trump trial moment like that, but I don’t need to see it live, and I definitely don’t need to sit through hour after hour of courtroom procedure waiting to see that one moment.

    I’m glad the trial will be recorded for posterity. That seems like the best way to answer claims of shenanigans in any trial. Actually watching the trial, all the way through, seems a little too much like watching Nascar hoping to see a big crash.



  • When I was working:

    • Credit card closes on the 25th
    • Utility bills arrive between 20th & 2nd
    • Mortgage due 30th
    • Paycheck arrives 30th
    • Estimate bills for the month & transfer the rest to mutual funds

    Expenses all paid by credit card, so I’m always ‘budgeting’ for the previous month and there’s no guesswork. Emergency expenses larger than a paycheck might require selling some mutual funds, but in 20 years that never happened.

    Now I’m not working, budgeting is basically the same, except that interest and dividends appear at random intervals in brokerage, are no longer automatically reinvested, but transferred to checking to cover bills, usually around the same time as the paycheck used to appear.

    I don’t automate anything, because I want to notice if a bill is larger than expected and address whatever caused that to happen.