

the abuser does not give a shit if their victims validate their gender or not, because they never gave a shit about the victim in the first place, so your not harming anybody by misfendering the abuser, but other trans people who you invalidate because of one bad apple.
there is absoubly no excuse for treating somebody like that, but hurting others in an attempt to do what exactly? harm this one person? seems like just more hatred to me.
xkcd spotted <3